You are that!

You know how easy it is to look forward to spending time with somebody when you’re infatuated? Get infatuated with you! Then spend enough quality time with you to truly know and love who you are. And act on that love, demonstrate it day in and day out, by assuming responsibility for your own needs, your own joy, your own health and well-being.

Everything else, including a partner, is a byproduct of that.