At 91, Mom found the courage to flee a nursing home despite the opposition. She had been misdiagnosed, drugged up, and “managed” in diapers and in bed. One year later, she is prescription free, wearing pull-ups, and using a walker. Rather than endure the problem, she is living the solution. That means hard work one step at a time. But Mom has always been a warrior.
She had to strengthen her arms in order to push herself up and sit on the bed without help. She had to develop her core muscles to gradually balance herself in an upright position. Then, she had to learn to stand up with assistance, and pivot into a wheel chair. That allowed her to get to the toilet and the shower. And, now, she is learning to use a walker. She’s also eating a healthy diet, using her mind, and letting go of fear and anxiety.
I’m so grateful that Mom is choosing to work for the quality of life she wants. And I feel like I’ve witnessed a series of miracles in body, mind, and spirit. Yesterday, we celebrated Mom, her one-year anniversary, her freedom, her grit, and her life. YAY, Mom!