When we cling to a partner, we don’t cling out of love; we cling out of fear. When we’re healthy and free, we want a healthy and free partner. We’re not afraid to let go. We can’t imagine that there’s a happier relationship out there for our partner; but if there is, we want him to find it. We focus on nurturing, rather than safeguarding. And that kind of love allows us and the relationship to blossom!