If you want an intimate relationship and you don’t have one, you’re holding on to something else that prevents you from having a partner. It also prevents you from living the life you’re destined to live.
It’s something that you probably have an excess of, something that gives you a false sense of security, and something you used to cope as a child. It’s a security blanket. You don’t need it anymore.
You can identify it and choose to let go of it. I can help, if you let me.