Don’t worry about how he sees you sexually or how you see him sexually.
Focus on how you see yourself sexually. Choose how you want to feel, how you want to appear, how you want to express yourself, your sexuality, and your love.
Then, revisit how he sees you and how you see him.
I think you’ll find there’s nothing left to worry about.
PS: This photo may represent an image you want or don’t want. There is no wrong if it’s true to you.