Forgiving is always the right thing to do, but it doesn’t mean betraying yourself or denying the truth.
If somebody wants a second, or third, or fourth chance, it’s okay to ask, “Why will it be different this time?” And unless they’re able to spill a heart full of evidence as to why it will be different, you can move on without feeling guilty.
Forgiveness frees us to move forward. But it doesn’t dictate that we move forward WITH the one we forgive.