To be healthy and happy in a relationship, you must choose to uncover the truth. You can’t choose for somebody else. But if they are unwilling to get naked and vulnerable, you can uncover THAT truth. And that’s a deal breaker.… More

I find myself loving, truly loving with no conditions and no agenda, more naturally. I spent years practicing, consciously practicing. Finally, I knew it could happen, I’m truly loving, with less conscious effort, more ease. And I am grateful, so grateful.

What’s impeccably clear to me now is that we don’t learn, we don’t practice, during the “best” of circumstances. But rather, we learn in the “worst” of circumstances. And when we have learned to make the best of the worst, we move forward. We get to live out our learning in the “best” of circumstances.

That’s what I’m doing!

I am not finished learning. From a distance, I bet I’m just getting started. But I am getting better at learning. And that, my friends, is the best we can hope for.

Let’s trust the process, the lessons. They are not intended to make life a struggle. The lessons are intended to teach us to align with love, so that we can know the best of us, the best of life.

That is what I am experiencing right now. And when I see the best in me and in my life, I automatically see it in you. I hope you see it.… More