Somebody else’s behavior can only irritate me if I decide that it means I’m not good enough. I am. You are! To hold on to that truth is to choose love. To let go of that truth is to feed our fear.

When we choose love, we’re home free. We spend our time and energy where it is rewarded with happy! … More

We can disagree with somebody and still reach peace, but only after we have considered their perspective.

So, while avoiding politics and religion may mean avoiding some chaos, it also means avoiding true peace, or true community.… More

You and your sweetheart are intended to work together as partners; but there are times when you feel more opposition than teamwork. During those times, remind yourself. And remind your partner–not just with words, but with actions.

When you nag or criticize, you’re likely to get a knee-jerk reaction from your partner. And you can end up with two butting egos! When you act to support your sweetheart by accepting him and loving him the way he is, you inspire him to be his best self. And, he wants to reciprocate!… More