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Our unconscious keeps files, but it doesn’t date them or evaluate them for legitimacy first. The files don’t get dumped unless we dump them. So 20 years later, we still lug around these feelings … and let’s face it, some of them were ill-founded to begin with.

A client recently realized she had spent 12 years in a marriage that didn’t work for her or for her husband. She married him because he asked — right after she lost her high-school sweetheart.

She had wanted to marry her very first love. When he refused, she felt humiliated and rejected.

As an adult, years later, she could face her feelings and give them a context. She could stop personalizing his rejection and, thereby, soothe the pain that nobody else had soothed for her. She could, then, face the hard truth that she had married somebody she was ill-suited for because surely HE wouldn’t leave her.

We can “dump the files,” particularly the ones marked PERSONAL, that indicate we are somehow flawed. We don’t have to feel like our time was wasted, though. We can realize that whatever our experience was helped us to get where we are. We can move on with the freedom and peace and joy that we had almost given up on.… More

ARE YOU READY TO LET GO OF WHAT YOU NO LONGER NEED, TO GET WHAT YOU WANT?

~ Learn what you cling to that keeps you from what you want.
~ Understand why!
~ Give your unconscious mind permission to let go of what no longer serves you.
~ Feel the liberation in subtle and dramatic ways–in all areas of your life.
~ LIVE FREE!

Cost: $80
Includes lunch at Adena Golf & Cuntry Club and a copy of Jan’s first book, “Naked Relationships … sharing your authentic self to find the partner of your dreams.”… More