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The best is yet to be … always.

If you’re not living the happy ending yet, take heart. Your story’s not over. Enjoy every “now.”… More

How much value are you willing to go for in a relationship?

The Reward Theory of Attraction says we are most attracted to those who give us maximum rewards at minimum cost to us! And four of the most compelling sources of reward are:

Proximity: Frequent contact predicts closeness.
Similarity: Shared attitudes, interests, values and experiences are rewarding.
Self-disclosure: Intimate sharing builds trust and allows us to know each other.
Physical attractiveness: We find beauty rewarding.

But the Expectancy-Value Theory says we weigh the value of the reward against our expectation of success in a relationship.

My theory, then, is that when we’re ready to manifest our true value, we’ll go for what we really want in a partner, knowing that we’ll be successful. … More

The way …

You don’t have to reach any particular place or level of spirituality to live a rich and satisfying life. You need only tune into love.

And when you find love within, you will find it without.… More

Love is an action word …

Can you imagine what happens when we let prayer become a faithless habit?… More

You can live the truth …

If you know you’re good enough but feel haunted by the lie that you lack something, the lie lingers in your unconscious. It is still a lie.

You can replace it with the truth.

How?

Just getting to what’s in our unconscious mind can be the toughest part. We have to realize that it’s there and clearly identify it to let go of it.

I like to exhale and blow it out into space until I can no longer see it or feel it. (Taking a really deep breath before exhaling helps me to release it from a deep place.)

Then I can inhale the truth, welcome it to every fiber of my being. I can get comfortable with it. I can feel it, live it, be it.

And I can remind myself of the truth when I forget. I can repeat the process as many times as it takes.

Love and smiles,
Jan… More