Infatuation lures us. But it’s not merely the infatuation we want. It’s the survival, the acceptance, the approval ratings, the pleasure. It’s that all-is-right-with-the-world feeling of oneness and omnipotence that comes with infatuation! We’re after all of it; but we want it now, and a relationship that starts with sizzling sex seems like the shortest path. Taking it means feeding our ego, instead of love; but it’s the ego that’s screaming for our attention!

Love is whispering, but it offers everything that infatuation does. And because it has a foundation, it lasts forever.

Shall we listen for love? … More

We can’t make anybody else happy; but we can love them for who they are inside. And if when we do that, they look to see what we find lovable, they will find themselves.

Voila! Happiness! We can’t force it; but we can point to it. … More

Most of us get it in our heads that we have to do something magnificent to prove our worth. But when we realize that we are worthy, we can lose the fear that we’re not and simply be who we are.

Manifesting true magnificence is a byproduct of being true to ourself. Let go of everything but you, everything but love. … More