Everything you want is a byproduct of getting to know you.
To know you is to love you; and to love you is to be true to you. And to be true to you, is to be true to love.
And THAT is the most you can hope for! … More
Everything you want is a byproduct of getting to know you.
To know you is to love you; and to love you is to be true to you. And to be true to you, is to be true to love.
And THAT is the most you can hope for! … More
We can’t make anybody else happy; but we can love them for who they are inside. And if when we do that, they look to see what we find lovable, they will find themselves.
Voila! Happiness! We can’t force it; but we can point to it. … More
You’re starring in your own love story …
And you get to write your own lines and deliver them yourself. What are you saying? How does the story play out?
Don’t despair. You also get to re-write the story. … More
Most of us get it in our heads that we have to do something magnificent to prove our worth. But when we realize that we are worthy, we can lose the fear that we’re not and simply be who we are.
Manifesting true magnificence is a byproduct of being true to ourself. Let go of everything but you, everything but love. … More
I have a new exuberance about what comes next, because I know I can rise to the occasion. There was a time when I had mixed feelings–the dissonance between “I want to grow” and “maybe I can’t really do this.”
Sometimes we want to shoot for the moon, but we’re still afraid to fly. We have to learn that we CAN fly. We have to find our wings.
Doing whatever we want to do, whatever we were born to do, requires faith in the learning process. I know I might fall down AND I know if I do, it’s okay. I can get up and try again.
And I will. So, will you. We’ve got this! And we have every reason to revel in the process.… More
From a reader: “Recently, I have become reacquainted with an old high school friend. He told me that he and his wife have not had sex for about 10 years — they have been married for 45 — and he has decided to go outside his marriage and have an affair.
I say, ‘No, no, no, that is not the right answer.’ But I do understand his position. She has made it clear she is not interested in sex with him. He is 64 years old, and would like to have a warm, loving relationship with a woman.
His thoughts and ideas have given me pause, since I have also told my husband that I am not interested in having sex with him.
The two situations are different. My friend signed up for love and sex in his marriage contract. My husband, on the other hand, knew when we got married a year ago (both at a youthful 65) that he was signing on for a marriage without sex. I also signed on for a marriage without sex and now realize that that may not have been such a good idea. My husband may be feeling the same way.
I know you are going to say I should open a dialogue with my husband, but it’s very difficult to do.… More
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