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Real love …
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Love is untainted …
Dear Friends,
Love flows both ways. As I share the gift of love, I also receive the gift of love in that moment.
When I feel like I’m giving out, but not receiving, it’s because I’m not giving from a pure place. I’m not really loving. Maybe I’m judging, or expecting something in return, or looking down on somebody, thinking they need my help. That taints my love.
And tainted love is not really love. Love is untainted.
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With love …
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This is the love I’m talking about …
Authentic love is my concept of love. It extends far beyond romantic love or even consummate love shared with a life partner.
Love is everything good; it is the force for good. It is pure and resolute, with no self-serving agenda, with no degrees or deviation. It is passion and peace. It is responsibility and freedom, strength and tenderness, rock solid and transparent. It is defenseless and invincible! It is neither pride nor shame.
It is fearless, unifying, compassionate, and healing.
It is mine, yours, nobody’s, and everybody’s. It can’t be seen, or touched, or quantified; but it is everywhere. It is everything. It is the only thing that matters. … More
How strong is your commitment to each other?
You’ve never seen him before — the guy across the room smiling at you. And he’s hot, not because he has a chiseled jaw or even a full head of hair, but because he’s unabashedly looking at what he likes. You! Now what?
If you’re not in a relationship, you can’t wait to find out! If you are in a relationship, this is a test. How strong is your commitment, the thing that keeps you faithful?
You are likely to stay committed as long as you think you can get more of what you want where you are than you could get elsewhere; and you’re likely to break your commitment if you decide you can get more of what you want some place else. So, what do you want? Chances are, neither a chiseled jaw nor hot sex is at the top of your list. Knowing what IS on your list — as well as his (or hers) — can keep you both satisfied, rather than feeling stuck. It’s not just a matter of staying or knowing that you will; it’s a matter of knowing that you want to.
You don’t commit once and for all; you are continually choosing.
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