If your partner wants you to be somebody you’re not, you don’t really have a partner. Be YOU!
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Dear Friends: When something doesn’t feel right …
I am so grateful that we can remedy what feels off to us–whether it feels overwhelmingly off or slightly off. We don’t have to wonder if something can be done to improve the situation, the home, or the relationship. This is true, because we don’t have to change anything outside of ourself to feel better. The course of action is always the same: Do what we can, one step at a time.
As able adults, we’re not at the mercy of somebody else. By choosing love over fear, we create our own peace and joy, within and without.
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Follow symptoms to issue, healing …
Question: I am in desperate need of some advice. I feel that my marriage is going downhill fast and I want to save it. Let me tell you the story.
A couple of years ago, I accidentally found e-mails that my husband was sending to an old girlfriend he wanted to meet up with. He told her a ton of lies about our relationship. I confronted him, and everything has been going OK. But now he is meeting women online and talking “personal” talk to them. He sits in the living room with me and talks to them. When I ask who he is talking to, he lies. I know, because I have the passwords for his accounts and can see what is being said. I don’t know what to do. We have been married 12 1/2 years. I still love him and I forgave him; however, I don’t trust him anymore and I am scared that he is going to find someone else and leave.
Can you please give me some advice as to what I can do to help us reconnect and save our marriage?
Answer: The first step is to talk with your husband in a totally open way, the way you might talk to me or to a best friend.… More
Order what your heart wants. And use what the universe delivers to prepare you for it.
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Love OR Fear …
We CANNOT embrace both love and fear. We must let go of our ego’s defense system, to reach for love. We must trust love more than we trust our security blanket. And … voila! We’re free. Love is all we need. … More
Sex as a window …
Let sex be a window into love …
We use foolish, hand-me-down notions about sex to figure out who we are, weigh our options, write our own story … and fumble our own life. But our biological need to be loved is really a need to be understood, to be valued, to be responded to. And while this desire seems almost lost to our consciousness, we are smitten by somebody who “gets” us, somebody who is tuned in to us. And during sex, If only for a few moments, we drop our boundaries and connect! Thus, we confuse sex for love. And when we do, it becomes an obstacle to love. But when we understand the role sex plays, we can use it as a window, rather than an obstacle. … More
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