Our relationships aren’t really about external circumstances. They’re about how we relate to each other. We want to be heard and understood. We want to be loved. When we are, we can handle the rest. And even when a partner isn’t there for you, you can be there for you.… More

When we watch Cinderella, we know before it’s over, that she lives happily ever after with the prince. From the very beginning, that was her destiny. And while your destiny may not be as obvious to you, it is written.

Trust that you are the hero of your own story. Your quest does not make you a hero; rather it reveals you as a hero. You don’t FEEL like the hero, though, until you begin to act like the hero. And, you act like the hero, as you are called on to do what heroes do.

Ahh, and that heroic action is often what we shy away from, because of our human doubts. When we trust what comes next, we displace the doubts. We displace the fear with love.

And THAT is always the hero’s quest. Give your story a name. And remember that you live happily ever after.

Love smiles,… More

We quit thinking, “If he/she would love me, then I’d know I was okay.” We know we are lovable, and it doesn’t matter if anybody else does.… More