There is no birth without travail. Still, we try to birth our own greatness without labor pains. And we often give credence to those who stand on the sidelines, ready to judge, but afraid to live. Let’s find inspiration, instead, from those who have dared to manifest their greatness.

Scream out if you must, Fall, and fall again, knowing you are intended to rise each time, strengthened by the effort. And don’t stop. Don’t ever stop. Don’t ever put a false ceiling on your divinity. Let it live.

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From a reader: “You said what makes two people compatible is how deeply and broadly they connect. Intuitively, it sounds right to me, but what exactly does it mean? How does it play out in a relationship?”

To connect deeply we have to get naked, not just physically (that’s the easy part), but mentally and emotionally. We can’t skate on the surface chatting about the weather and expect to attract a soul mate.

We have to risk talking about religion and politics, spirituality and values, dreams we still dream, lessons we can’t seem to learn, and fears we still run from. We have to share from a deep place inside of us if we want to connect deeply. As simple as that sounds, it can be difficult just to face some of what’s in there, let alone pull it out and share it with somebody we’re trying to impress.

The irony is that once you’ve looked at what’s in there, you start to realize how amazing you are! That doesn’t mean everybody will connect with you. But whether they connect or not, if you’re trying to determine compatibility, rather than prove it, your mission is accomplished! And there need not be any hurt feelings.… More