If you want your Happiest Valentine’s Day ever, make it 100 percent real. Valentine’s Day isn’t about flowers and sexy lingerie. It is about truly seeing, and knowing, and loving a sweetheart.

What does that look like in the picture of your life.

For me, it looks like seeing into a partner’s eyes while I listen to every word he wants to say. It looks like seeing into his eyes while I open up to feel all of him. It looks like sensing the nuances of what he thinks, and dreams, and fears, because I’m paying attention. It looks like a smile on his face that knows I have seen every crevice and felt deep into his heart, and that with no reservations, I love all of him.

Don’t worry about whether or not you have a sweetheart, but be ready for what it actually looks like.



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Telling Question: Will I be glad I did this, regardless of the outcome. When we’re looking for reciprocation or a particular result, we’re apt to be disappointed. And that disappointment is intended to teach us to do what we really want to do, as opposed to doing what we think will get somebody else to do it, or deliver it!… More