Love has no agenda …

You’ve probably heard the joke: Women always want to know what men are thinking. But the men aren’t thinking! It’s funny, but that doesn’t make it true.

My baby says that men just aren’t thinking about women all the time. They’re not obsessing about the relationship. Not quite as funny, but more true!

Not all men are the same. Not all women are the same. And we’re not the same from cradle to grave.

Still, there’s a takeaway: Man or woman, it’s not always about you. And you’ll be happier without the stress of judging your partner and personalizing his/her behavior. … More

To free yourself is to free your greatness! Leave the comfort zone, the clutter, and the fear behind. And step into love! … More

Don’t be distracted by what doesn’t actually matter in your relationship. Give your energy to what’s important to you. And in doing so, you’ll nurture yourself, your partner, and your partnership.… More

When you know what you want, rather than suggest it or pose a question, just tell your sweetheart. Be straightforward and matter of fact. Don’t throw it out there for discussion; throw it out there to get what you want. If he (or she) thinks you don’t particularly care, why wouldn’t he choose what he wants?

In general, women are more apt to be indirect than men are … and then be disappointed. You don’t have to wait as long as I did to actually practice this. Choose happy! … More

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When we chase two rabbits, one gets away. Two of our favorites to chase are Elusive Love and Sex. Elusive Love most likely gets away. Sex is easier to catch, but we can’t quite hold on to it. Sex is on every corner, though; we can catch another! And in the meantime, we find another alluring rabbit to chase–Big Bucks, Pretty Hare, Smarty Britches, Mister Muscle, or Chocolate Mousse. Before it’s over, we may chase a whole field of rabbits and, with years of practice, cleverly catch them.

But the one rabbit that can satisfy our yearning is Authentic Love. And Authentic Love, the most glorious rabbit of all, isn’t running. It’s nesting inside of us, just waiting to birth a life full of the most precious little rabbits we ever dreamed of. … More