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Being true to yourself heals whatever hurts.
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May we see the opportunity, and may we heal …
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Striving in your relationship?
Sometimes we really believe that we’re striving for a loving relationship, when actually, we’re trying to get somebody else to conform to OUR IDEA of a loving relationship! We can’t do their striving, or their growing. We can’t decide what they’re ready for. We can’t even decide what a loving relationship looks like for them!
It’s wonderful to persevere in aligning with love and creating a relationship that reflects YOU. Live your dream! But don’t do the dreaming for somebody else … and then try to get them to work at living it. Let go of your notion of what’s right for somebody else.
And continue to revisit what’s right for you. If you have to push too hard or cling too tightly, maybe it’s not for you. Love is work! It’s responsible and persistent work; but it feels like being true to yourself, not trying to squeeze into a pair of jeans, a party, or a relationship that doesn’t fit.
Not sure if you’re truly loving your partner or pushing YOUR idea of a loving relationship? You can’t be responsible for how your partner feels, but how he feels can be telling. Does she feel respected OR disrespected by you?… More
Dear Friends … ETA: Exact Moment of Your Readiness
We’re constantly choosing either love or fear. But it’s not as simple as choosing between an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other.
Is it more loving to earn a promotion OR to be content with our current position? Is it more loving to walk away from a partner OR make a relationship work? One option stifles our love. The other frees our love. One option distorts the truth with excuses, justification, blame, and guilt. The other option shines a light on the truth.
I encourage you to embrace a deep knowing that the truth always serves you. I encourage you to trust love to bring all the pieces together. As you know, I had to choose love over fear–not to stay in my marriage, but to walk away from it. I had to let go of the security that pacifies to embrace the love that satisfies.
Sometimes we’re afraid to let go, because we can’t quite see the truth, can’t quite trust love, or shy away from the uncertainty. We don’t want to wait for something better; we don’t want to wait for love. Truth is, we’re not sure it’ll show up for us. Love is always there, though, waiting for us to show up ready.… More
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