Love has no agenda …

All humans are in Love School. Find neither pride nor shame in level. And remember one thing: The answer is always love; and that love must start with you! You cannot love another any better than you love yourself! … More

When you don’t take the time to know somebody, you can wake up to a stranger you don’t like. And this is equally true AFTER marriage! … More

When we fall down, however painful, we can trust that it prepares us for something more, including a more advanced lesson. It behooves us, then, to find sweetness in the learning …and maybe somebody we enjoy learning with. There really is something about a kiss that makes it all better. … More

When you expect a relationship to work without work, you set yourself up for disappointment. But when you lay a little ground work, you set yourself up for a shot at lasting love!
The ground work is intimacy; and there are five areas of intimacy to consider for the BASIS of a relationship. … More

To have self-esteem* you must know yourself and be true to yourself, which dictates that you are also true to a partner (and everybody else)!
*Self-esteem: confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self-respect.… More

To get the unconditional love and attunement* you long for from a partner, give it to yourself. Your partner will follow.

*Attunement: The state (or process) of being tuned into. Being in harmony, a feeling of being at one. A baby has attunement with his mother, when she tunes into him and responds to his needs, his cries, his expressions, his sighs, and his smiles.… More