Love has no agenda …

It doesn’t matter what people think. It does matter what reason we give them to think it! Our words chime out, and our choices continually speak on our behalf.

If we choose love, now, we can let go of the rest. … More

Just as we cannot have peace without passion in other areas of our life, we cannot have peace without passion in an intimate relationship. Passion is more than erotic love or sexual desire. Passion drives us to create, to persevere, and excel, to do our best work, to be our best self. With compelling enthusiasm and powerful conviction, passion empowers us to be true to ourselves. … More

Knowing what we truly want is the toughest part of creating the life we can live with both passion and peace. … More

The most abbreviated test I know for compatibility: Are you both better people as a result of the relationship you have with each other? … More

I was never much on small talk. Pseudo conversation can feel like pseudo relationship. I want to know who you really are. And you are enough like me, that I do.

You’re beyond amazing! In your heart of hearts, you’ve always known that. But if you’re having your doubts now, just get to know youreself on a little deeper level.

Happy Sunday … a beautiful day to sit with you and love. … More

Life has never felt so real to me. I don’t know how much sense that can make to somebody else, but it makes sense to me; because love is the only thing that’s real. And so much of what I based my life on over the years was less than loving. I don’t mean to imply that I was a “bad” person. I was more goodie-two-shoes than bad; but goodie-two-shoes was closer to self-righteous than I realized. And I worked hard for picture-perfect, the house with pretty wallpaper, the muscled boyfriend, the red Mercedes. Nothing was enough.

There isn’t enough of anything else to fill our need for love. I realized this 30 years ago, before I wrote the little book “The Person I Don’t Have Time to Be … Is the Person I Am.” Although I wore designer clothes and had them tailored to fit, I didn’t feel like that person. Well, maybe I did … how was I to know that people who looked like they had it all together could feel like scared little girls!? It was like that cliche, “If the club will accept me, how good can it be?”

Lately, though, it dawns on me that everything in my life seems real … and it’s not because THINGS are better or worse.… More