Love has no agenda …

Being silly reminds us of how it feels to be happy and free.
Don’t forget the magic! BE SILLY! … More

We want love so much that we’re afraid to risk rejection. So, almost in a panic, we run to the mirror, or try to pad our wallet, OR act like we don’t care. Let’s take a deep breath, instead, and remember who we are. We can break through the lies and indoctrination–maybe somebody told you that you were fat, or short, or stupid. Maybe somebody just implied that you had to have an education, or a voluptuous body, or come from a “good” family. You’re a masterpiece, though, an absolute miracle! And you’re somebody’s TEN! Don’t get stuck in a mold that doesn’t fit, or on a treadmill to nowhere and nobody! Your TEN is out there! … More

Why didn’t somebody tell us how amazing we were–before life kicked us in the pants, and we learned to be on guard? Somebody probably did. But, chances are, somebody also told us in a million little ways that we were too little, too big, too loud, too shy, too something. And that’s the part we believed. We have to hear something positive five times in order to compensate for one negative! So, I just want to tell you about a billion times today that I think you’re absolutelly amazing in about a million different ways. And you are! … More

If you find yourself working to be the right one for the right one, consider just being you. Not a lazy you, or a complacent you. The you before you got scared that you weren’t good enough. The you before you hid some parts and stifled your spirit, trying to win approval. The you when you still believed—or knew—you could do anything. The most beautiful, naked you. That YOU! … More

… More

When there’s something we want from a partner that we’re not getting, all we have to do is give it. … More