Wow, did I ever hit the proverbial “home run.” It took me some 54 years of trying, but I finally figured it out. Figured what out, you ask? How to have a relationship? How to find the woman of my dreams? How to understand a woman?
Yes. Yes. Yes. And here come the answers โ if you want them.
Love. Love. Love.
No-brainer, right? Slow learner, too. I had to learn for myself what love is, and it took a long time, with lots of bruising and pain along the way. Just as importantly, I learned what love is not.
The path of love is very narrow. It is displaced by ego, power, control and the love of anything other than yourself, the people around you and God’s creation. Yes, guys โ loving your car is different from loving your girlfriend or wife. And toys are just that: toys.
So after bumping around all over the place, how did I find love?
I started by loving myself. As my wife likes to say, you can only love another as well as you love your Self. Through knowledge, understanding and forgiveness of my mistakes, I found an empowering love and goodness within me.… More