Love has no agenda …

Sometimes it seems like we took the long way or the hard way. We may think we could have or should have made better choices. We may blame somebody else for what seems like a sorry situation or life.

But manifesting our essence of pure love was always going to be the work of a lifetime, no matter what path we took. And when we begin to accept that and flow with it, we let go of the struggle and embrace peace and joy.

It is our journey, our flow, our life, our love. And we don’t have to land anywhere to be happy. The kingdom is within. It has always been there. And it is simply love, pure love, everything good, untainted by the fear of lack.

Manifesting our essence is more than the work of a lifetime, it is the glory and majesty of a lifetime.… More

I don’t ask God to remove my struggle. I thank him for the option of letting go and learning from it. … More

What would you do today if you weren’t afraid? Love’s got you covered. And love wins.

Go for it!… More

We can tell what we’re ready for by what comes our way. And instead of lamenting what’s presented — because we were hoping for something else — we can be grateful for the gift. We can recognize that it is in fact a gift and that it is what we’re ready for. Only when we truly appreciate the gift, embrace it, and learn from it do we ready ourselves for something else.

You may want your prince to show up with a kiss that magically transforms your life, but the prince isn’t going to show up until the princess is ready. Cinderella had to sweep a lot of floors and do a lot of soul searching before she got to dance with the prince … and then she had to let go of him at midnight. Only then, were they united in an ongoing dance of the heart.

So when you encounter still another floor to sweep, sweep well. When you’re challenged to search your soul and purge another layer of fear, purge well. When you encounter a beautiful human being who’s not your prince (or princess), love well.

Take joy in what you’re ready for. Don’t try to squeeze yourself or somebody else into an ill-founded script.… More

With baby boomers scurrying to remain youthful and sexy, we don’t hear a lot about waning sexual desire. And regardless of age, the media might have you convinced that you’re supposed to want sex more than you do.

The truth is, according to findings shared with me by Tamar Krishnamurti, a graduate student at Carnegie Mellon University, and George Loewenstein, a professor at CMU: 1) As we get older, we want sex less and 2) As we continue year after year in the same relationship, we want sex less.

Don’t despair; we still like sex — just not as much as we used to! Why the declining desire and pleasure?

Even sex can get routine and monotonous. If you’re over 40 or had sex with the same person for more than five years, you probably knew that. And sexual appetite is designed to propagate the species, mostly while we’re still young enough to make babies. There goes some of our pleasure — eating when we’re really hungry is more satisfying!

Apart from procreation, though, there are practical reasons to have sex. It has been shown to improve physical, mental and emotional health, as well as relationship satisfaction. There is a direct correlation between frequency of sex and both longevity and happiness.… More