We tend to go for what we think we can get. And often we can’t get what we want until we do what we feel unprepared to do!
Remember that love can do anything … and let that help you stretch your comfort zone!… More
We tend to go for what we think we can get. And often we can’t get what we want until we do what we feel unprepared to do!
Remember that love can do anything … and let that help you stretch your comfort zone!… More
Despite all our science, many men still talk about what women want as though it’s beyond their comprehension. In light of new research, perhaps some of it’s because men confuse what women want from a long-term relationship with what they want from sex!
Despite all of our political correctness and sexual liberation, maybe society as a whole still makes a more ready distinction between sex and love for men than between sex and love for women.
What women ultimately want in a relationship is simply to be known and loved to the core by a trusted companion. What women want from sex, on the other hand, varies from woman to woman, and from situation to situation.
I asked David Buss, noted psychologist and co-author of well-researched “Why Women Have Sex,” to help dispel some of the confusion.
“The takeaway from the book is that women have a complex sexual psychology that cannot be easily summarized by a few things,” says Buss. “Women have sex for dozens or hundreds of reasons, from feeling sorry for a guy to getting revenge on a guy; from consummating a love relationship to scratching a sexual itch; from beating out other females to doing a favor for a friend.… More
We can forget how many obstacles the hero encounters, because he just goes about the business of overcoming them.
But let’s not forget who the hero is in our own story!… More
If there’s something missing in my relationship, I’m not giving it. I will get out what I put in. God’s magic!
Always true … in your relationships, too.… More
For the longest time, I didn’t understand how Sam (my husband) could call an action movie mindless and relaxing. I could enjoy watching them; but they seemed anxious and intense to me. I finally got it. The hero always wins! And the drama is staged, unrealistic. No worries–only the bad guy gets hurt.
And guess what? Sam lives his life like he’s the hero! He doesn’t know what comes next. He trusts it! And mostly, he’s relaxed.
PS: Listen to your partner. Ask questions until you understand, rather than assume you can’t! Voice of experience here. … More
If we buy dinner in hopes of sex, or do the laundry in hopes of marriage, we’ll be disappointed. Even if we get what we want, it won’t last–unless we continue to buy dinner or do the laundry. And that makes for an angry and resentful life.
Often, when we’re disappointed in our results–or our life–we can revisit our motivation to see what went wrong.
Love is always the right reason to act! And it doesn’t much matter what we do, if we do it in love! Nor does it matter what the result is! … More
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