Love has no agenda …

Infatuation doesn’t turn you into a superhero. It makes you believe what you always knew. You ARE a superhero. And, finally, somebody else knows it. The magic doesn’t just feel real. It is real.

It doesn’t last because we get scared before we have time to give it a foundation. And when, we get scared, we put the walls back up. We can no longer connect.

Nonetheless, infatuation offers us a window into love, a glimpse of our divinity, oneness, and omnipotence.

Recognize it for what it is, as well as what it’s not!… More

When we feel off center, there is always a reason. And when we find the reason, we find fear. Every time.

With practice, we can become more sensitive to fear. We can recognize it and alleviate it more readily. And we can spend more time feeling centered in love (where there is no fear).… More

God’s got us, whether we follow His lead or fight Him every step of the way. He’s not afraid to let us hit bottom, because he knows how the story unfolds. We’re the hero! And, ultimately, we choose love, we find the light. The rest is designed to reveal the hero!

Our resistance may paint the path rocky or rosy; but the light never flickers. We’re going home to love. … More

Don’t concern yourself with how your partner sees you. Concern yourself with how YOU see you.

Face your illusions and false beliefs. See what’s there through objective eyes. Care for yourself inside and out. Heal your wounds and get healthy. And love every piece, every crack, every beautiful morsel of you.

Then, you can share all of you. And your partner can love you the way you’ve always wanted to be loved, the way you love yourself. … More

You’ve probably heard the expression, “Don’t play small.” It tells us not to live small. It also tells us not to act, or pretend to be, small. We are not small. We are big … we are huge!

Why not go for all of what you want? Why not trust God, or the universe, for all of what you want? Half of what you want is no easier than all of what you want.

Maybe you’re afraid that you’re not ready. Maybe you’re not. Part of getting ready is thinking big and living big. Life will happen a step at a time — as you are ready. You don’t have to worry about taking step 59 — not until you’ve taken steps 1 through 58. So, go ahead, take the next step, whatever it is. You’re ready for that one.

And, don’t let go of big while you’re taking those little steps. That’s what living big is — it’s knowing your bigness whether you’re taking baby steps or giant steps. You’re big! Don’t believe or accept less.

Maybe you’re afraid that you want something that’s not good for you. Trust your spirit.

Live big! Smile big! Love big! Because you are BIG!… More

“My longtime partner dumped me…after several months of on-again, off-again. And I met this incredible new man. My friends are warning me about being on the rebound. Does it really matter?”

If being on the rebound means feeling vulnerable and deprived, it matters. When we’re coming from a needy place, a new prospect can seem to meet not just our immediate need, but all of our needs.

The first problem is that when a relationship is based on need, rather than love, it’s not the relationship we’ve dreamed of. Think about it: You don’t want a partner to be with you merely because he needs somebody to listen to him or care for his kids.

The second problem is that when you desperately need, for example, somebody to show you affection because your ex had grown cold and distant, you’re apt to place inflated emphasis on the warmth of skin to skin. Yes, it’s important — but so are a whole list of other things!

It’s easy to take the things you did have (maybe a great mind and a strong work ethic) in your ex for granted…and not realize that you’re missing them in a new partner, until you’ve survived that desperate — or rebound — stage.… More