Love has no agenda …

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Dear Friends,

Relationships aren’t easy! But consider the option … of being an island.

Sometimes we fumble, try too hard, get scared. Sometimes it seems like our partner is unreasonable, even impossible to get through to. But ask questions and listen enough to figure out how it makes sense in his mind. Trust that she’s not really impossible to understand–and cherish.

Even when you’re not sure there IS a way, take a kind step toward love. And trust.… More

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How do you want to be loved? Can you picture what that looks like? What you look like?

Love yourself that way. Look like that.

That is the only secret to getting the love you want from somebody else!… More

I promise not to take myself too seriously at the top of the next hill.

Okay, I just increased my chances of getting there.… More

The thing you’re most afraid to let go of is the one thing that stands between you and what you want. You probably have an excess of it … and you probably used it to cope as a child.

It’s your security blanket; and in moments of fear, you want the blanket more than you want anything else. You cling to it like it’s a matter of life and death. It used to be.

You don’t need it anymore! You can tap into your unconscious to identify the blanket; and then you can trade it for what you want.

You can also stop defaulting to the blanket in hundreds of ways in the course of everyday life—at work, in your relationships, making dinner, and deciding what to wear!

You can be free to live the life of your dreams—instead of your unconscious programming! … More