Love has no agenda …

I don’t have to change the situation to feel better. I just have to see me for who I am!… More

When in doubt, nobody is too good for love! And you ARE love! Stand on that! … More

After we had walked the trails, Sam and I lay back on the grass next to the water. Although we were en route to the car, this was my favorite part! I had the warmth of the sun, a serene view of the water, and my sweetie. I felt alive and perfectly connected…and I wanted the feeling to last.

I suggested that we get lunch and eat by the water, explaining that I wanted to bask in the feeling, rather than rush home. Sam agreed. We headed to the concession and returned with chicken strips and French fries to share.

We lingered. It was lovely and peaceful — Sam even fell asleep — but it never felt quite the same as it had earlier.

As soon as I started planning, I got out of the moment. When I looked to the future, trying to prolong the feeling, I was no longer present with what I wanted to revel in.

It occurred to me, no surprise here, that this is the temptation with lovemaking. Ideally, we can be conscious of pleasure without getting out of the flow. I think it is easier to just close our eyes and be unconscious OR conjure up our best attempt at fireworks…because that’s what we have practiced.… More

We confuse sex with love. But there’s not enough sex to satisfy our need for love. So we’re hooked on sex and hungry for love! … More

If you rely on the past, or commitment, or even blood to hold you together, you can find yourself just going through the motions in a pseudo relationship.

We must be present to truly connect with those we “love.” … More