Love has no agenda …

One of the toughest and most rewarding lessons we can learn in relationships: What’s missing is what I’m not giving.

When you are open to that truth, you will see it. And it will dramatically change your relationship and your life. I know this, because I have been curled up on my bed sobbing, trying to see how this was possible … to find that it was both possible and precisely true!

And it’s very good news. WE CAN GIVE WHAT’S MISSING AND GET WHAT WE WANT.… More

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Today … may we trust love, God, the universe enough to simply be real. May we be present enough with who we are to revel in our majesty.

And may we share it with neither pride nor shame.… More

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Happy Birthday to the man who loves me without feeding my ego or his. In my wild-ass-dreamer imagination, I cannot imagine a more fearless partner in love and in life … and in the ongoing growth demanded by both.

Happy Birthday, Baby Boy! I love you. I love you! I love you! … More