Love has no agenda …

Maybe with fewer opportunities to interact with others, we’ll place more value on the opportunities. Maybe we’ll be more present, more deliberate. Maybe, we’ll be real.

Being real means being loving. It means connecting beneath the surface. Start a conversation with the weather if you must, but say something meaningful about it, something you can say with conviction.

Life is way cool–even the weather is. Let’s do a better job of living like we know it … and a better job of sharing it.
I’m in! And if you are, we just connected.

Thanks for being here, for reading my words, and giving me a chance to say something worth your time.

I see you. And I love you.… More

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May we let go of what no longer serves us to make room for what does serve us. We can’t choose both.… More

It’s true that we can get so consumed by a relationship that we don’t seem to have time for anything else. And we can get so caught up in pleasing a partner that we lose sight of our own needs and desires. We forget who we are.

BUT in a healthy relationship, both individuals have a safe place to probe deeper into who they are, to know and share more substance. They have a safe place to be vulnerable, to face their fears, to overcome their fears, and grow into a purer, fuller version of their authentic self.

And in doing so, they purify their love for each other. They keep their interaction alive and dynamic.… More

The quality of your behavior isn’t determined by how somebody else responds to it. Nothing feels as good as the freedom to be YOU.… More

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