Love has no agenda …

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When partners stop competing, they can join forces and bring out the best in each other.

You may think you don’t compete, but if you’re always trying to be right, or think you are, you’re competing. You’re letting fear and ego win, instead of letting your relationship win.… More

We can never go wrong by simply trusting the truth. We don’t have to complicate it, or dilute it, or measure it out. It always serves our highest good, THE highest good.

There is no love without the truth, no foundation to build on without the truth. There is no forward motion, no freedom, no peace, without the truth.

Here’s to trusting our freedom, our love, our life to the truth!… More

“Relationships don’t work when people get hooked up with opposites, instead of partners with similar traits who like what they like,” says one reader.

Not bad … but it’s over-simplified.

“Similar” is most apt to work after two people have accepted who they are, and are no longer trying to get somebody else to give them what they “lack.” Opposites sometimes attract each other to compensate for what they think they’re missing.

If, for example, you long to be comfortable socializing, you might be attracted to somebody who’s outgoing and well connected in the community. And although, as an introvert, you could be intrigued by a socialite for a while, novelty is generally short lived. While an extrovert is fueled by the crowd, an introvert is drained by it — even when enjoying it — and might want more space to catch his (or her) breath than he can find with an extrovert.

This is a perfect example of how two people can get enthralled with each other — briefly. Infatuation rarely survives for more than a year.

On the other hand, if you’ve learned that you can mingle with a crowd of strangers, and still prefer to spend your time with intimate friends, you just might accept yourself as-is.… More

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