There was never going to be a way to TRULY get “there” without taking the steps between here and there.
But when we realize that the act of taking each individual step prepares us to take the next one, we are less overwhelmed by the climb. We can be present and appreciate what each step offers. And when we are, the steps seem more worth taking.… More
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If you want to be in a relationship, but you’re not, there’s a reason. You’re holding on to something that keeps you from attracting and embracing the partner of your dreams.
You can identify what you’re unconsciously clinging to … and let go.
I can help with a single consultation or my “Finding The One” program. Schedule online or text me: 386-299-6256… More
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We are most attracted to those who give us maximum rewards at minimum cost to us. And four of the most compelling sources of reward are:
Proximity: Frequent contact predicts closeness.
Similarity: Shared attitudes, interests, values and experiences are rewarding.
Self-disclosure: Intimate sharing builds trust and allows us to know each other.
Physical attractiveness: We find beauty rewarding.
But the Expectancy-Value Theory says we weigh the value of the reward against our expectation of success in a relationship.
Don’t get scared and underestimate your ability to succeed in the relationship of your dreams. It’s your destiny … that’s MY theory! … More
Sometimes we’re so stuck in an unhealthy relationship or so surrounded by them that we think that’s just how it is. It’s not.
Relationships are intended to be happy! And you can learn how to do them well.
After my second divorce, I got a second wind and resolved to get it right. I started writing about relationships, and my local paper launched my weekly column. It got syndicated, allowing me to pick the brains of leading experts. I did it with zeal, for ten years.
And I’ve been writing and practicing ever since to bring the science, the art, and the spirit of love together.
Whether you’re in a relationship that falls short of your dreams, or you’re still looking for or waiting for “the one,” I can meet you where you are, and we can lay out a path to where you want to go.… More
Jan's program for the quest of a lifetime.
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~ What love really is
~ Who you are, apart from the facade
~ What it actually looks like to love you
~ How it feels to exercise the freedom to be youClick to Read More
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