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The only one you CAN save is the one you MUST save …
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Dear Friends: Nothing’s too good for you
Yesterday, I bought a new car. Actually, it’s a 2016, a Porsche Panamera. After buying it, I asked Siri how to pronounce it. Before buying it, I had to remind myself that I could. I had to stretch my comfort zone to choose the car that felt most like me AND have the guts to go for it.
When I look back on my life, I don’t have regrets. I fell on my butt and learned some lessons the hard way. I eventually learned them, though, or I’m working on them. Still, some of the opportunities I passed up years ago, even now, prick my heart. In the moment, I didn’t feel good enough for them. I was, but I didn’t KNOW it. And you are, whether you know it yet or not.
Nothing is too good for you, because NOTHING is too good for love.
Love smiles on you,
PS: In case you wonder why I didn’t get a new Panamera, taking the depreciation hit feels irresponsible to me. But maybe I’m just growing my courage.… More
Don’t squeeze yourself into a relationship …
It can be just as tempting to squeeze yourself into a man’s (or a woman’s) mold for you as it is to squeeze yourself into the latest fall fashions. Okay, maybe it’s more tempting! Hold your ground, though. Let relationships — and clothes — enhance who you are, rather than try to change who you are.
If you love to wiggle your toes, don’t get all cramped up in pointed boots; and whatever you do, don’t stifle your magic with his (or her) constraints. Maybe it doesn’t sound like something you’d do. You’re an independent woman of the world, right? That doesn’t mean you don’t act like a puppy dog in a relationship! You have, probably within the last week, feigned pleasure in something, rather than disappoint him … and if that seems harmless, imagine the burden of keeping up a façade for the rest of your life.
You might not even realize you do it; but remember when you really wanted a salad and ended up fixing burgers? Or maybe you were so ready to get a good night’s sleep when you accommodated his sexual move instead. Or maybe you watch movies you find shallow, walk when you feel like skipping, wait for him to say, “I love you,” or bite your tongue during still another vacation with the in-laws.… More
Don’t lose your self …
We can’t really lose our self to somebody else. We can only lose our self to our ego. It is our ego that tries to please, tries to hold on, and tries to win at the expense of our true self. … More
Let’s do it, whatever IT is, in love …
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