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Chance to connect …
Every interaction with another human being is a chance to connect or disconnect. We will do one or the other. To connect, we must choose to serve humanity rather than ego, love rather than fear. When we have done that, we will know peace. And this is true even if it dictates that we walk away from somebody. True connection is not with somebody else’s ego. It is with love.… More
Where does sex fit in?
Where does sex fit in?
According to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, self-actualization is at the top. And well, sex is right at the bottom–a basic, perhaps over-rated, physiological need–along with air, food, water, and sleep.
But at its best, sex is a means of baring your body, mind, and spirit and meeting somebody at the top of Maslow’s mountain. It is a means of making everything that may get in the way disappear while you fulfill, in one simple act, your self-actualization needs. It may last only for a moment; still it is a moment that you can hold on to.… More
Let’s dance to love …
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Love without an agenda …
When we live without an agenda, we are at peace in love. We let love reign. … More
Don’t let equality neuter you …
I heard him coming as he got ahead of me to open the door. Then, his smile turned to, “Oops, I hope you’re not one of those women who prefer to get the door themselves.”
Men are confused! They instinctively notice women and want to be strong for them. And according to one study, men automatically view women as sexual.
I could have opened the door myself, but I like that he noticed me and opened the door. And I even like the idea that he saw me as sexual. It felt natural to both of us — until he stopped to think about what was politically correct.
The mere term “politically correct” is a red flag. We don’t all want to be politicians!
Force messes up equality because it implies that somebody needs a handicap. The key is to recognize that we truly are equal; and that being equal, we can be — and want to be — different.
Men and women are different. We are all different. And sometimes society’s effort to equalize us looks more like an effort to abolish the differences than honor the differences (a vital part of who we are).
We don’t all want to run to an office every morning, and we don’t all want to tend to children day and night.… More
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