We are love. But to FEEL like love and MANIFEST love, we must let go of fear. We must trust who we are.… More
YOU, from the inside …
You can shine far brighter as YOU, than you could ever shine as a facade trying to win approval.… More
Dear Friends–Spirit needs fewer words than ego
I take Sunday as a sabbath, not as part of a religion, but as part of love. So when a friend visited last Sunday, we practiced silence on a trip around the pond. It reminded me of how little we really need to say. But more than that, it reminded me of how much of what we want to say springs from ego.
When we rely on our spirit, we don’t feel compelled to draw attention to our grand acts, OR explain our not so grand acts. The best carrier of spirit is silence.
Let’s recognize the noise for what it is. And let’s listen to the silence.
Love smiles,… More
Being true to you …
When we choose love, we are also choosing to be true to our self, our divine spirit of love. And that is the only way to be happy, the only way to be at peace.… More
YOU …
Remember that YOU are NOT the darkness. When it feels like you are, it’s because your ego is scared. You are the light. You are the love. And love is unthreatened. … More
When is it cheating?
Question from a friend:
“When is it cheating in a marriage? If you had lunch with David and David wanted to kiss you, would that be all right? If you kissed David passionately, would you tell Sam?”
You might know me well enough to anticipate my answer. Surely my friend does, too.
Passionately kissing David—or anybody—would be cheating. And I would tell Sam. In fact, I did tell Sam when David tried to kiss me. Was it all right? Yes, in the sense that I’m only responsible for how I respond, but I don’t think it would have been okay to avoid telling Sam. Open feels much more honest and loving to me.
A strict definition of cheating: Sharing less than all of you.
A looser definition: Betraying a commitment.
That said, commitment is an ongoing decision, whether it’s made consciously or unconsciously. And being honest about what you’re feeling today is even more important to a healthy relationship than keeping a commitment you made yesterday.
When you share less than all of you, it’s because you accept less than all of you. And that’s cheating … yourself and your partner.
All of you is better, so much better, than isolated pieces of you.… More
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