Our behavior doesn’t have to be determined by somebody else’s. We can determine it by love.
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Happiness …
When we invest in happiness, we grow it. We pump our heart, expand our mind, and exhilarate our body. We shine happy! And we need not worry about being selfish, because to choose happy, we simply choose to be authentic, authentic love. That yields self-esteem, peace, joy, everything good. … More
Dear Friends … Let’s stay out of the corner
We don’t want to be tolerated, or merely accepted. We want to be cherished. But we can’t feel cherished, unless WE know and cherish who we are. Then, we’re willing to share all of our sacred parts with somebody else. We’re willing to risk rejection, knowing that if somebody else doesn’t like who we are, we still will.
When we think we have to make a relationship work, we paint our self into a corner. We get stuck. We forget who we are, because we’re not manifesting who we are. We’re masquerading as mediocre.
It doesn’t matter if somebody else wants to hear what your heart has to say. It doesn’t matter if somebody else likes you. Be you anyway. Because if you’re not, you won’t like you, either. Be somebody you can cherish. And you’ll attract somebody who can’t help but cherish you. And if you want to speed up the attraction, don’t worry about how long it takes.
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We don’t exercise faith with positive words. We exercise faith with positive actions.
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Do you delay gratification?
Delayed Gratification: Overrated or Underrated?
It’s interesting to sit in the middle and get mail from both sides of the proverbial aisle about immediate versus delayed gratification.
“He has a drink and he can’t contain himself. All of a sudden, having sex is no more than eating another potato chip,” writes one reader.
“She has no idea how to just relax and enjoy the moment. …I don’t know what she’s saving herself for,” writes another reader.
When is it in your best interest to “let go and trust the moment”? And when are you better served by “good things are worth waiting for”?
According to Daniel Goleman, author of “Emotional Intelligence,” those with high emotional intelligence have the ability to understand and control emotional responses. They can manage their feelings and curtail inappropriate expression of their impulses.
Now, all you have to do is figure out what’s inappropriate — like the 4-year-olds in Goleman’s “marshmallow test,” which he says demonstrates the power of emotional intelligence. Each of the preschoolers was left in a room with a marshmallow — they could eat it immediately, or wait for somebody to return from an errand and then be treated to two marshmallows.
As a 4-year-old, how long would you have waited to upgrade your treat from one marshmallow to two?… More
I cannot love me, without knowing me. And when I do, I know that we are all one. I can be neither superior nor inferior.
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