Love has no agenda …

There’s something romantic about dancing in the rain, right? Well, I’m 66 and, finally, I can say I have danced in the rain. It made me smile. Doing something you’ve always wanted to do is bound to bring a smile. No matter the outcome, we did it; and we get to check it off our list.

The dance reminded me that dancing in the rain is something we prepare for. We don’t just stand there in a rainstorm and decide to dance. We’ve met prerequisites.We’ve developed an awareness of the rain. We no longer hide from it. We don’t shy away from it. We trust what the rain brings to meet our needs. Then, when we get caught in the rain, we can smile. We FEEL like dancing; because we’ve learned to appreciate the cleansing, the nurturing, the lessons, and the rainbows.

And that brings to mind some of Eric Fromm’s wisdom. He tells us how people often look for the right object, or the right person, to love. They may think that if they could just find the right one, they could love that one perfectly, easily. The reality is, though, that love is an art. And if we are going to love the one well, if we are going to love anybody well, we must practice the art of loving.… More

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If somebody wants a second, or third, or fourth chance, it’s okay to ask, “Why will it be different this time?” And unless they’re able to spill a heart full of evidence as to why it will be different, you can move on without feeling guilty.

Forgiveness frees us to move forward. But it doesn’t dictate that we move forward WITH the one we forgive. … More

We can trust the fall, just as we do when a baby learns to walk. We can revel in the lesson. And we can find sweetness in the pain. Let’s be brave and grateful!… More