As in the garden, we still yield to the temptation to believe that we lack something. All fear, ego, stress, violence, anger, hate, and addiction stem from believing the lie. Without the lie, we have heaven on earth; with the lie, we have the gift of choice, or the privilege to choose heaven on earth. … More
We confuse sex with love …
We can’t get enough sex; because there isn’t enough sex to satisfy our need for love. But we keep trying; because infatuation and orgasm do open a window into love. We involuntarily drop our boundaries and connect with somebody. Somebody gets us! And that’s the love we want … but the boundaries automatically go up again. We’re left wanting. And we Band-aid our dissonance, until it drives us to heal our wounds. Then we can share our nakedness as the best of who we are, to know authentic love–with sex as a byproduct, rather than a substitute.… More
We know …
When we don’t know, we haven’t been silent long enough to hear the truth that scares us, but also frees us. … More
Just don’t go off half-cocked without it …
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You only need one …
“The one” for you may be one in a million; but so are you! And you only need one. Be a rarity; and you will attract one.… More
How do we accept a partner unconditionally?
Unconditional acceptance is part of unconditional love … but extending it to an intimate partner is tough. What makes it possible, or helps to balance it is detachment. I can accept my partner, his (or her) traits, his behavior, his remarks unconditionally; and I can also detach myself from them, in the sense that I’m not disturbed by them. I trust him. I trust love. I’m not afraid he’s going to make a mistake and mess up my life.
Love is undeterred. … More
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