If you want somebody to like you, show up. Really be where you are. Look them in the eye. Like them first. All they need is permission; and you give that to them by liking them first.
They may not be romantically interested, but liking is a step in the right direction. Friendship is a foundation for romance, and it’s also a means of meeting more people.
Show up!… More
I got fast food yesterday at a drive-through. The woman at the first window took my payment, but didn’t really look at me. She said thank you, but didn’t really say it to ME. The woman at the second window gave me my food and went so far as to tell me how pretty my purse was! I got to respond. I got to like her; she made it easy. Let people like you by simply showing up! Really be where you are.
And when somebody else doesn’t show up, do your best to show up and like them anyway! … More
If you want to see how beautiful people are, just smile at them … and watch them smile back.… More
Happiness doesn’t depend on anybody or anything, but love. And your happiness depends solely on your love!
Let it rule your life! … More
There is no division in love; and you are love. Your peace, your oneness, with all that is, begins within.
If there is dissonance in your thoughts, attitudes, values, behavior, you can bring them all together. Until you do, you host an internal battle. And that battle is reflected in all of your relationships.
As within, so without.… More
Love isn’t some tangible thing that we can own. It is an intangible force that we can align with, demonstrate, and be!
And that is coming home to love, coming home to who we are.… More
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