Looking for a financial break? The other day I caught myself skimping … and said, “Jan, don’t write the book report, without reading the book.” As a kid, I was able to do that and get As. As an adult, I know it’s about more than getting an A! Be efficient, but if you catch yourself looking too long or hard for a shortcut, give it up. Deliver the goods! A financial break is about trading value for value. What’s in demand that you can consistently deliver, better than anybody else? Love delivers! … More
Dance, Baby, Dance …
Don’t settle for somebody else’s music. You can dance to our own like you’ve never danced before. You’ve got moves! … More
You’re gonna dance like you’ve never danced before …
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We’re it …
Whatever the problem, love is always the answer. And we’ve got it! Let’s not be too busy or too scared to use it. We’re not at somebody else’s mercy. We’re at our own. … More
Let’s trust the magic …
Your relationships are not excluded from the magic. They are the very foundation of the magic! … More
Don’t Declare Anything in Anger
I am really wondering if I made a mistake in marrying Donald. I thought we were in the working it out stage, but now I am not so sure. Now, there are moments when I hate him, and when that feeling comes over me, I can hardly believe it.
It just seems like the barrage of things gone wrong, things of annoyance and frustration, is unending. I don’t laugh. I don’t cry. I don’t smile. I’m so angry that all I can do is put on a mask and try not to explode.
I knew what I was getting into when I married him, but I still want to make it all his fault. Intellectually, I know it’s not.
If you are married, you have almost certainly been there, wondering if you made a “mistake.” And marrying the wrong person is a mistake of consequences that can seem devastating.
Of course the thing to do is communicate your misgivings, and that doesn’t look like an explosion or a mask. Don’t declare war — or anything else — that’s fueled by anger and blame. Give yourself a timeout — put yourself in a quiet corner or go for a walk.… More
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