We know there is no fear in love. We can’t be scared and also love well, manifest everything good in love, and be true to our authentic self.
Still we try to hold on to both fear and love, rather than choose love and let go of fear. We can’t truly love somebody while also judging him, (judging is fear-based). We can’t manifest abundance and contentment, while also striving to prove our worth with material possessions (that, too, is fear-based). And we can’t be true to our essence of love, while also clinging to something tangible (more fear).
We can’t choose love and anything based in fear at the same time. We have to let go of fear to choose love.