We want to be loved to the core for who we are, not what we look like, or how much money we have, or what we can do for somebody. We want a partner to tune into who we are on the inside, as well as on the outside.
But that can’t happen as long as we guarded. We have to give up some control, we have to yield, we have to be vulnerable to get the love we want.
And it’s like magic, when we stop hiding, we’re free. We no longer feel vulnerable. We are no longer at the mercy of somebody else’s response to us.
WE see and love who we are. It no longer matters if somebody else does. But they will.